We had spent the past two years on an emotional roller coaster, discussing oh, so much discussing his burgeoning attraction to men, trying to incorporate it into our marriage. Another Bi in a mixed orientation relationship Submitted by Angel on January 10, - 5: Tap here to turn on desktop notifications to get the news sent straight to you. The humiliation of everything is too much sometimes. He was coming to terms with his sexuality and I was at the end of the puzzle. So, in a large sense, I protected him. We seemed to be spending less and less time together.
How many straight women didn't know their husband's were gay. Our children deserve to be protected from this as do all of us and there should've already been legal protection from this on the books long ago. I certainly understand that they may not want to share that particular medal in the Oppression Olympics. They finally came out and are publicly living an authentic life. I am very angry.
A gay or bi-husband might make their 'dislike' of homosexuality particularly public in an effort to 'throw others off of the scent'. He knows I sometimes look at girls and guys, but its normal for anyone to look. I'm sorry you were treated this way. However, the marriage ended five months later after a bitter row. The hope is that you never have to consider any of these gay husband signs and will have a happy marriage.
The utter trauma caused me to have a really bad seizure after that so that memory got buried like so many others from my childhood. He had sent it to me by mistake. In the marriage, I gave up a career, have had to guide and support my daughters who have been bullied actually pushed up against a locker and punched in school , lost friends, other daughter needed therapy for cutting, both have emotional issues, as well as myself, trying to financially provide when support terminates after years of being the only parent involved in their care. We just got a house and joined all accounts everything seemed so perfect I thought we were happy There were lots of tears, both his and mine. Sorrow, hatred, anger, confusion, stupidity, jealousy and a lot more. The closeted man who comes out tends to be seen as the unalloyed victim these days, while the wives are collateral damage.